Stop Lowering the Bar.

You ever get told:

“You’re too picky.”

“You’ll end up alone.”

“You’re looking for something that doesn’t exist.”

Cool. Let them settle.

Let them chase crumbs and call it love.

Let them convince themselves that bare minimum is a blessing.

Not you.

You’ve been through too much to fall for potential.

You’ve been gaslit, ghosted, breadcrumbed…

And still showed up with a full heart.

Now?

You read the energy.

You trust the patterns, not the promises.

You choose peace over butterflies.

You choose clarity over confusion.

And the bar?

It’s not “too high.”

It’s right where it should be:

Aligned with your value.

Because love isn’t supposed to drain you.

It’s supposed to meet you.

Hold you.

Match you.

And if they can’t do that?

They can watch you rise from a distance.